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opalmind: kellysue: craftyjai: ride-the-vibes: This is JASON...

Tue, 21 May 2013 12:27:50 -0400

kellysue:

craftyjai:

ride-the-vibes:

This is JASON FYLES and he goes to my university (Newcastle University, North East of England) He is 19 years old, 5’8, ginger hair and slim. He was last seen in the Sandyford area at 2:45am on Thursday morning and has not been seen since. He was wearing a blue shirt, grey cardigan, beige chinos and brown ankle boots. Everyone in uni is so worried about him along with his family and friends. We are coming together as a university to appeal for his safe return. It is thought that he lost his friends on the night out and tried to make his way back by himself. Please, I am begging for you to REBLOG THIS, even if you don’t live in Newcastle, or England. Every REBLOG means that someone else will see his face, they will know who we are looking for, and your followers could be the one to know his whereabouts. Stay safe Jason, we’re looking for you.
THIS WILL NOT RUIN YOUR BLOG!

Local news report

PLEASE. Nobody reblogged my own post on this which I posted an hour or so ago so I’m wondering if nobody will now. This guy is my friend. If I have ever sent you a nice ask or reblogged something of yours and it made you happy for a second (or even if I haven’t; this is about helping him, not doing me a favour) for God’s sake just help now, help to find my friend Jason. You want me to make him human to you?

Once we all grew beans in pots as part of a Biology experiment- the experiment failed miserably and made the whole lab stink, but his was the only bean that grew and he was actually pretty proud about it

He learned to knit as part of a school project where he had to learn a creative skill, and when a couple of people teased him about it he said “gender is a social construct” and carried on knitting like a badass

He loves the scene in The Great Gatsby where Gatsby throws all his silk shirts around and he and I used to giggle over it together

Once I asked him if he had a string of tinsel I could use in a photoshoot and he brought me a big cardboard box full of tinsel and fairy lights because he’s a helpful and lovely guy

He’s HUMAN and he needs our HELP and just PLEASE PLEASE FUCKING REBLOG THIS??? He’s been missing for four days now- when he went missing he would have been wearing his contact lenses and he won’t have had his (very thick) glasses with him so by now he’ll have had to take his contacts out and throw them away and he won’t be able to see well and oh God just please signal boost this

British friends — keep an eye out?

So weird when things like this happen when it’s people who are in the same area as you. Scary scary scary. Hope he’s found.

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Mon, 20 May 2013 23:52:25 -0400

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Mon, 20 May 2013 23:28:50 -0400

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Mon, 20 May 2013 23:25:17 -0400

lexieellman: lets go

Mon, 20 May 2013 23:10:13 -0400

lexieellman:

lets go

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Mon, 20 May 2013 23:03:55 -0400

theongreyjoy: i’d love to see more women villains that are completely unsympathetic. no stupid “woe...

Mon, 20 May 2013 12:41:54 -0400

theongreyjoy:

i’d love to see more women villains that are completely unsympathetic. no stupid “woe is me” backstory that hardly justifies their actions. no victim complex. no hesitation. just a love for carnage and head games and an insatiable lust for pain. mentally unhinged or fully in control. there aren’t enough female characters out there that are truly monsters. as much as it’s fun to see male characters do that, i want some iconic serial killer ladies in my life.

geminidiva86: One more day the. Best sign ever ♊ #team #gemini...

Mon, 20 May 2013 12:40:29 -0400

geminidiva86:

One more day the. Best sign ever ♊ #team #gemini ✔💯👍

Gemini Season Starts TODAY!

Mon, 20 May 2013 12:38:47 -0400

sexualassumptions:

everything’s bout to get a lil more sexier

a lil more sweeter

more flirting more fun

more moving to a music you forgot you knew the words to

more dancing with strangers

and lingering on sidewalks after hours

swapping dirty stories bout that one time when

you lost your heart to a gemini

but only for a second

it’s gemini season

and i’ve been waiting all year to feel this.

lycanfist: perfuqed: kubbypan: karkatquest: ohbabyitsnatalie:...

Sat, 18 May 2013 18:22:09 -0400

lycanfist:

perfuqed:

kubbypan:

karkatquest:

ohbabyitsnatalie:

How to read people’s minds.

Watch Those Pupils
A persons pupils get bigger when they are aroused, interested and/or receptive. If you look into his or her eyes and see those pupils growing large - it’s looking good for you. Basically big pupils (unless it’s just dark) mean a person likes what they see.

Try this experiment, and you’ll understand how immediate this effect can be. Go right now and look in the mirror at your own eyes. As you look at them, imagine a sexy man or woman you are attracted to - in whatever way would turn you on. You’ll see that your pupils get bigger in just seconds. Actually, if you love to fish, they may get big just thinking about a lake you love. Anything you like to look at can make your pupils bigger.

Now, there are two ways to use this.

1. Mind Reading
For the mind reading part, you can now watch for changing of pupil size to know if someone is interested in you or what you have to say. And yes, shrinking pupils generally do mean the person is not interested. Just be careful to note if light in the persons eyes is causing the shrinking pupils.

In addition to judging the general level of interest and/or receptivity to you, you can use pupil size to go a little
deeper into a person’s mind. For example, during the course of a conversation, you can describe various scenes or delve into different topics, while watching the persons pupils. If their pupils shrank at the mention of skiing, and got huge when you described a beach you like, you can be fairly certain they would like the Bahamas over a ski resort.

The great thing about this little trick is that you can easily test it and refine your technique. Start with a friend whose interests you know already, and watch their pupils as you describe various places or even ideas. See if getting them to visualize, by saying something “Remember how that car of yours looked,” gets a bigger pupil response.

2. Influencing
If you haven’t yet experimented with your own pupils, by watching them in the mirror, go try it now. You’ll find that you can quickly train yourself to change your pupil size at will. Just find a mental image or two that gets them really big, and use these as necessary. Look at a light briefly when you want to shrink your pupils back down. Now, how do you use this?

We all use little clues like pupil size as we interact with people. We are affected by people’s expressions and body language even when we haven’t yet learned to identify it. In other words - the person in front of you will unconsciously pick upon your enlarging pupils. They will unconsciously take this to mean that you like them,
and for many people, this will make them like you more.

Listen. This is the easiest and most effective way to read minds. Just pay attention, ask a few questions and listen to what they say about themselves.

Watch the Posture. Leaning towards indicates that the person is interested and receptive.

Watch For Hair Play. When women play with their hair while talking to you, it is almost always a sign of receptivity.

Watch the Mouth. A slightly open mouth is a sign of curiosity and interest.

Watch the Head. A tilting head, especially if it comes with a smile and eye contact, is a sign that the person likes you.

Watch the Eyes
Here is what people’s minds are doing when they are thinking or asked to remember something. This is true for most right handed people (reverse all this for left-handed people): As you face them, and their eyes go:
Up and to the right - they are remembering a visual image.
Up and to the left - They are constructing a visual image.
To the right - They are remembering sounds or conversation.
To the left - The are constructing sounds or conversations.
Down and to the right - They are in an internal dialog.
Down and to the left - They are accessing kinesthetic feelings, tastes and smells.

How to influence the opposite sex:
Use Mirroring and Matching. Match the speed of your speech to that of the person you’re talking to. Sit like he or she is sitting. Use the words they use. This is a fast way to build rapport. Once there is a “bond” built, you can start to lead the conversation and actions where you want them to go.

Compliment Her or Him. Discover what the person is proud of first, then find a genuine way to compliment them in that area.

Listen. Always show a genuine interest in what the person is saying. Ask appropriate questions, so the person knows you’re paying attention. Use their interests to lead into a direction you want to go.

Make Good First Impressions. Men usually form a quick visual impression in less than 20 seconds, and then make another judgment based on appearance and personality within a couple minutes. Women usually place less immediate emphasis on appearance, and form an “intuitive” first impression in a couple minutes. The lesson? Work fast.

By Steve Gillman. Excerpt from “A Book of Secrets”

Oh my god, I honestly didn’t think this was going to work but it did and I am in awe right now. This is amazing.

this would be really cool if my eyes weren’t as fucking black as the night sky

fuck i neeeeeeeeed this book wowowowow

The world needs to see this

I want to see something, Reblog if you're older than 13 and younger than 25.

Sat, 18 May 2013 18:12:33 -0400

One event down, first in forms competition for 2013 AAU...

Sat, 18 May 2013 12:10:22 -0400

One event down, first in forms competition for 2013 AAU Mid-Atlantic Qualifiers

fckin-drugs: trip

Thu, 16 May 2013 07:01:19 -0400

fckin-drugs:

trip

neciscriptwriter: Geminis prefer to be honest. We are terrible liars and we try to treat people how...

Thu, 16 May 2013 01:54:22 -0400

neciscriptwriter:

Geminis prefer to be honest. We are terrible liars and we try to treat people how we want to be treated.

mhmmm, calling it how i see it ;)

our last attempt to study….! so happy finals are over,...

Thu, 16 May 2013 01:45:57 -0400

our last attempt to study….!

so happy finals are over, this semester has been groovy…can’t wait to start my summer off right with Camp Jam in the Pines tomorrow night!

When is your birthday Gemini girl!?!

Thu, 16 May 2013 01:37:50 -0400

coming up!!!

June 10 :)

hands down my favorite underwear ;) cannabliss…. ❤

Thu, 16 May 2013 01:37:00 -0400

hands down my favorite underwear ;)

cannabliss…. ❤

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Tue, 14 May 2013 01:12:46 -0400

hopefiending: One Conversation There is a girl that I have...

Mon, 13 May 2013 11:48:49 -0400

hopefiending:

One Conversation

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